Your husband has repeatedly made terrible job/career decisions that has cost him jobs and $. Apparently, they proceeded to take shots of vodka. "AITA for leaving a family reunion early because of my cousin's unannounced pet?" asked Reddit user "dreamyassistant" in a July 15 post on the website's "Am I the A--hole" page. Need some insight. If it helps to think about it, you aren't thinking of leaving your husband because of her. I’ve been married for 5 years. Wrong both times. If you left him it wouldn’t be because of MIL. James also has bi-polar depression & borderline personality disorder. If he waits for me, he brings his work laptop or some music. But now towards the end of our university years. They got the description all wrong (wrong color vehicle, wrong brand of vehicle, and they thought the driver was significantly older than I am), but that was basically it. You would be leaving him because he is letting her affect your life in this way. My ex once told me he would leave me if I became 100% deaf which is a very real possibility. Back in June I (49M) made a terrible mistake. The goals are “don’t drink, take vitamins, make good food choices, drink 2 cups of water, brush teeth twice, clean something, 5 mindful minutes, get some kind of exercise, create something” and a few others. whatintheworldboo. My last relationship (before my husband) was 5. My husband doesn’t want me to spend 3 weeks on the road and a week home. We’re loosening a bit. I’d be wondering if he’s gonna come clean and about how much. And when I move on with my life, her family money would go to total strangers. The longest he drives me is maybe 30 min. My husband is well aware I do not like being a mom and pleads with me from time to time to do more. I got pregnant first, and when our son turned 1 we finally married. My brother has passed away. Whenever I get super depressed I become very Imagine being a 21 year old guy sitting in the truck waiting for your wife to do anything on a Wednesday when you could be at a job, at the gym, even walking around the damn parking lot. We've been married for 4 year but yesterday was our 8th anniversary of starting relationships + 4 years since our engagement (he proposed on the same day). My now-ex lost his job when our first kid was 6 months old. Posted by u/KindBet4817 - No votes and no comments I now put myself before others. If you can escape, then they know you’ll realize you should. If he is unable to defend himself against his abusive daughter, you should file for divorce. Especially the fact he doesn't respect that you feel unsafe. 2. I can't believe you're saying this in 2023 because I never indicated anything in my post to suggest there's a chance of infidelity. 250 votes, 122 comments. The incident happened two days ago. If you try to control him, you’ll go crazy because he may sneak around, ignore, etc. Something that you will do. For me going abroad for 2 weeks is too long to be away and way too far if something were to come up and he needed to get home to you. My husband drives me everywhere. My roommate has let me drive her car about a thousand times now and not once have I driven as horribly as my ex lol. ) Scan this QR code to download the app now. Was walking in middle of the night with a backpack escaping abusive husband. Tricky_Tadpole8962. It’s still up, if you’re interested in some backstory. My husband has a rather sporty Subaru… My husband is away for work and so I have been solo parenting. I parked two blocks away and walked down the narrow alleyway that ran behind the Old Town commercial district, to avoid running into any of Tanner’s coworkers. because she's my wife. 8M subscribers in the TaylorSwift community. tell him to grow the fuck up and get a damn license. We only have and can afford one car. He works exclusively from home. 27M subscribers in the videos community. But the best teacher I had was actually my grandmother. He was truly the love of my life and we had perfection for the first few years of our marriage. 2 children (12/10). WIBTA if I drove to my friend’s house to beg forgiveness. My husband went off on me in the car and said I lied and manipulated and humiliated and exposed his mom and said he wouldn't have let me get away with it had he known. Most of the time they’re using that to isolate you as much as they can. His alcoholism isn’t about you - it’s about him. A subreddit for everything related to Taylor Swift 105 votes, 19 comments. She doesn’t like me, but she pretends to whenever my husband is around. Didn’t want my kids to see me stopping at the liquor shop on a random Tuesday night. I drove my husband to the grocery store for him to buy me flowers on the evening of our 8th anniversary Hi, I'm 26f living in Canada with my husband 31. I’d like the background changed to something similar to the second picture please. Yesterday he called me and told me that a friend of his is able to take some stuff over there so that we won't have Oh friend, he does not have a completely justifiable explanation. Not even a year later I met my husband and he is the greatest guy. L, on the other hand, has a strong village and is financially better than my situation. This content has been removed by me, the owner, due to Reddit's API changes. (She already deleted her post by the time of me writing this so I havent seen anything after my replies) Basically, I told her to take care of herself for a whole day. I barely thought of them. June 9 to be exact, I posted something on Facebook meant to piss my friend (55F) off after we got into a fight. If you have a better background idea, that totally works too. (If not original, must give credit to rightful owner. Finally ran away from my husband last night. We settled on my visit to be after he had been there for 3wks I’m staying for 10 days then his work is done 3wks from now. I feel so free. Please read the sidebar below for our rules. Yeah it did seem strange but I had an instance like this. 👍. if he drives drunk again, you leave him. Or if he drives drunk again, you change the locks on the door. My husband [26M] drives dangerously when angry to scare me [25F]. If you need to get it touch -- tippo00mehl [at] gmail [dot] com -- mass edited with https://redact. You're doing the right thing, especially if he is doing nothing to stop his daughter from bullying yours. This story might get a bit jumbled because I will tell what she did 2 days ago, then give backstory to explain the call my husband had with her today where she explains why she did it. My best friend is a dude and I hang out with him 1 on 1 all the time. The box was way larger than I expected and he said it wasn’t in the usual place aboard his truck. The issue is that he had just driven home, with our… AITAH for getting angry when I drove my husband 2 hours to pick up a car and on the way back he went for a drink and did not ask or tell me. Now she wants me to sign off my husband’s inheritance to her children because I’m basically not family anymore. The sister is married and has 3 children. It was raining and I hit a car parked on the side of the street, panicked and drove away. The first two years were amazing but then we moved closer to his family and things started going downhill. I pushed away the love of my life (let’s call him T) and I regret it so so so much. Finally at 11:40pm my mom just offers to drive me home. I suggested that, because it was getting quite l My girlfriend is moving away. 76 you owe me for your boy toy smashing up my car” and when the “it’s just money” “we’re family” starts, say “yes we are family and I don’t know why your trying to put money in between us, I didn’t want anything until you asked to tear up I. I understand his prospective of safety and other factors related to family but I love this industry, mind you there are very few jobs where we live in this industry that would hire a new Edit: The driver just dropped off my package at 6:15. I work and I’m in grad school. 6M subscribers in the gardening community. I was on my way home from working a double shift and it was pitch black out. My husband and I are 0-gen immigrants, working and raising too kids completely on our own with zero help from families, most days especially after my 2nd was born, we are exhausted. This car went by but came back and the girl in passenger seat said “thank god we found you get in the car”. besides, anything is better than getting busted and getting a record. My husband (m33) and I (f33) have been together for 12 years (married the last 7) and have a toddler (m5). That would be divided between my husband and his sister. 1. My MIL got incoherent drunk and drove around the state for 10 hrs while people were searching for her. r/TwoSentenceHorror A chip A close button. 5 years long. Over the years, however, Don't get in the car with him Please. Our next relationships will be with people who don’t need our fixing, who can offer equal emotional intelligence and value what we have to offer. that's my responsibility as her husband. ADMIN MOD. I found a post from the husband of the person I hit, saying "my wife was in an accident and the person drove off", the time and location matched. I worked 60-80 hour weeks so we could keep our house. Or he drives drunk against, you call the cops. He said he realized he missed my delivery after he left my neighborhood and it was just a mistake. I texted my friend since I wouldn't see my therapist for a while I told her I needed company and that we didn't have to talk or do anything I just didn't want to be alone. Replaced the fuel filter, took it for a drive to my girlfriend’s house, on the way back I hit a fucking deer going 10 UNDER the speed limit on a back road and totaled it. You are thinking of leaving your husband, because of HIS response to inappropriate family behavior. At the start of our relationship my husband was romantic and affectionate. Now she’s stopped taking our calls. Alleviate your guilt and explain the situation to your mom and maybe she can go out and talk to the owner of the mailbox with you. My husband and I have been together 8. I have finally been able to throw away that bullshit fairy tale in my mind of loving and being loved and just doing everything in my power to make that special person happy and recovering happiness in turn. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get a handle on your anxiety - anxiety will keep you in chaos, make some things seem worse than they and others better than they are. The ac window units. I told him we have no time for this and get in the car, and we drove off. In the post, the Sorry about your luck. My mother has always been very controlling with my father, she's what people would call a one-tone nag, always moaning and complaining about something, and this is the main reason I keep my distance from her. Now I am realizing I am becoming exactly like my mother. I tell him I'm getting an uber and he ignores me again. • 6 yr. Many roads are empty, straight for miles and give unobstructed view to rough mountains/glaciers in the far away. dev/ A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage. This might be more than mildly infuriating now that it’s happened several times, but my husband gives things away that he thinks I don’t use very much. You’re 16 and have guilt over this, which means you have a good moral compass. Reddit's main subreddit for videos. Background, she lost her husband in 2019, on June 9. It doesn't mean that he isn't being unfair and that you are crazy. This all started from me becoming severely depressed because I couldn’t find a job for about two months, I have one now finally but still. Your daughter, mental health, happiness, and safety should always come first. He had the guys picture, address and number, and I left my cash in my car when I walked up. My husband and I have been married since I was 18. My husband, James, has always been a heavy drinker(6 pack of beer every day, a few bottles of wine on weekends, I often find empty bottles of spirits hidden in drawers). This is my favorite picture of him. She’s incredibly manipulativ I (26F) am currently waiting until I give birth so i can get my divorce from my husband (30M). Scenario (mine of course): 14 year marriage. I left, and once I got on the highway, used a spoof number to tell him off and block him. Crashed my car while drunk last night. Award. I thought very little of it, even though I occasionally told him to slow down or pay atten The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver r/abusiverelationships. Ups and downs like any other relationship. But she was the calmest, trusted me the most, and gave me the best advice. 14K subscribers in the roseanne community. My boyfriend generally drove ok but would speed a lot and occasionally drive rather recklessly. I came out to find him arguing with a council litter person, and he had picked it up and refused to give his name. To add: I had my husband on my phone, with a headphone in one ear. I don’t My husband is military and we married quickly and moved 16hrs away from our families during December. When we met she said she knew what would cheer me up and we bought excessive amount of alcohol, she was mainly getting it for me but I didn't object because I had recently But we also have a fundamental difference. I proceeded to pack a bag and drive 200 miles away. At least you're trying to work though! We moved to this new place in a new state with a larger and more expensive house about 9 months ago and my wife still hasn't gotten a job like she said she was going to. My husband and I were so in love, but now have this wedge between us. As I can no longer access this service with Relay for Reddit, I do not want my content contributing to LLM's for Reddit's benefit. We’re out of options and are considering driving the three states away to confront older brother into helping his family. Stay strong, my friend. To get to this place, you take a small highway that's 1 or 2 lanesit starts as one then goes into 2 lanes, the max km is 80 I think. He had wanted to wrap some gifts for me and I for him. Before I met my husband, I got cheated on by my ex, and lost my baby (i didn’t know that I was pregnant at the time because I was too occupied in the stress from being cheated on) my ex gave me chlamydia. Then, when I go to look for them, he helps me look and never mentions that they’re never going to I drove away the love of my life and I don’t know what to do anymore. That’s awesome!! For some reason the porch always seemed smaller in the show. She decided that she wants to move away and do her master somewhere else and potentially immigrate there permanently. We were driving home (him driving) from lunch and having a pretty good day when in the middle of the drive his stomach started hurting. So I've been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years now and things has been great. My own husband thinks this is a bad idea and that we should let middle brother sink or swim at this point. My family is tired and wants to go to bed but are staying up for me so I'm already embarrassed. Now I'm even more embarrassed. Last night I told my husband I wanted a divorce and then left and drove around crying. I had to see the fifth-floor break room for myself. Another 25 minutes passes. Need some input on this: I always drive, my husband never does. We went out to visit her this spring, and my husband Skype… Hiya, My husband was seen stubbing out a cigarette butt by the car whilst waiting for me to come out a shop. I put myself above others actually now. I still, to this day, have post-traumatic panic attacks when I am anywhere within his presence. A place for the best guides, pictures, and discussions of all things related to… My mother tried to trick me [F26] into joining my sister [F31] for dinner after she "tested" me around her husband [M31] Continue browsing in r/relationship_advice 9904914 subscribers Oh yes, most incredible place to road trip ever. To understand why they were capable of walking out on their family. If he does leave something out or lie then It's been about 2 years. I left him and didn’t answer and talk to him. Thank you. It's Christmas eve, and at the end of the night we were wrapping the last few gifts we had for everyone. I tried calling him and he ignored 4 of my calls and multiple texts. ago. Nature photos are great, a peaceful scene… a place to breathe away from the madding crowd. The backstory is a bit long but is needed to understand the conversation (highlights are giv It amounts to a couple of million dollars. Go figure. 💕 best of luck getting away from this guy if you choose to. Then I went to my messenger and saw the listing gone and he blocked me. What drove you away? Advice. That summer my Mil and her two daughters, DH’s full sister and half-sister, decided to come stay with us for a visit of about 10 days. 5 years with absolutely 0 jealousy/trust issues and 0 infidelity. I wrote a day ago about my husband freaking out on me after I drove our pets and us 10 hours away for Christmas with his family. I was out there so I just asked him in a friendly way. I know that everything is a blur right now but trust me you will be okay. My husband threw away my vanity that my dad build, I can't forgive him. Welcome to /r/roseanne, the official subreddit for discussing the hit TV series "Roseanne". I (28F) have been living with my husband (31M) for about 4 years now. It's literally and figuratively killing me. We’re muslim so divorces can’t be obtained while the woman is pregnant. Husband gave away my stuff and pretended he didn’t know what happened to it. it's like $15 and 2 hours of his time. I don't mind, I hate driving, and I dont mind waiting for him. Access Google Drive with a Google account (for personal use) or Google Workspace account (for business use). H is in need school. I've also driven my friend's old jeep wrangler. We were 15 minutes away from home so I asked him several times if he wanted to pull over to a gas station or something so he could use the It’s probably on camera. I went looking for the car today to leave them my name and number, but because I’m in a new city and was driving aimlessly, I don’t know what streets I was on. 15 votes, 25 comments. Didn’t want to feel sad and disappointed in myself. We had an argument and he is demanding I apologize to his mom for my childish behavior and for ruining Christmas dinner for the whole family. My father is a quiet man who avoids all conflict and my husband is kinda like him. Background: my MIL lives about a 14 hour drive away from us. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. Take care of your daughter OP. So, after replying to some comments I realized that I needed some time to give myself. Wayward Wives. She called us crazy for even asking her to go against her husband like that. I’m new to the trucking world and I love driving, the sights and being in my head. 187 votes, 17 comments. . I was 17. My ex has never forgiven me for making him feel emasculated and small by 'making' him stay at home with our kid. It rang and rang. Two months after I married my husband I became really sick, he learned all the best ways to look after me. His dad and grandfather were too. It will just make it easier for you to see your situation clearly. He stayed at home for 9 months. I had to take everyone out to grab juice boxes for valentines party tomorrow. Please try to…. I want to start by saying that my husband is my best friend and we've worked hard to build a life together. e. Utter Shame and disappointment in myself. Once my strength returned a few minutes later, I took the crate downstairs, loaded them in my car, and drove to Old Town. One of the very last incidents was when I caught him in the act of cheating on me. Got a call from the insurance today, saying someone filed a claim for a hit and run, and of course I owned up to it. Today my husband and son went to his parents cabin for a long weekend. My husband is going on a 2 hour away golf trip for 3 days when I’m 34 weeks and it’s on the stipulation that if my doctors appt that week shows any indication of progress that he’s not going. i made vows to stand by her and help out. My husband just told me that while I was at work on Sunday, he went to his cousin’s house with our toddlers. I learned to drive on a little 4 cylinder manual ford mustang. I normally use late night shopping as an excuse to grab booze. Parked around the corner and Ubered home. And vice versa. My husband has a family friend “Serena” who is very close to his mother and sister-in-law so she’s always around. He’s been abusive through our one year marriage but a few months ago he choked me and then threatened me with a knife. At this point understanding them is codependent behavior and it has to stop. He's had various forms of treatment, therapy, medications etc. You have never had an argument (i swear, really), your husband has never We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. You have picked up the slack and is now successful in your own career. A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage. I loved that thing for the week I had it. His cousin thought it was totally acceptable to let my husband drink and drive home with Today I came home to my husband of 10 years slumped down in his chair glassy eyed and slurring. I drove drunk and drove my car, and I hit a parked car and drove off. Than any time she wants something say “I will consider that when you give me the 989. Defiantly going back to see something I may have missed. or god forbid, getting into a crash and getting into even more trouble. My husband lives in another city 8 hours away and I am currently in the process of moving there. As long as I accomplish the first three each day, the rest are just bonuses. Although it may be hard, I would say wait it out and see what happens. Gonna have to get my car shipped to Iceland this time and road trip all summer long 😄 I bought a B2200 for a couple hundred bucks, it had a fuel problem that made it jumpy and laggy. My parents asked me the other day if me and the kids could meet them at a popular spot about 45 minutes away, and I said let me check with my husband. She was the oldest out of everyone, and wasn’t driving anymore by the time I was getting my license. They’re everywhere. Or check it out in the app stores Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Everyone’s not a teacher, my mother, father, and a driving school instructor all taught me how to drive. He’s the one who wanted me to come, his other suggestion was to fly home every weekend which I vetoed bc of costs. I stepped away from social media for the day and asked my wife for some space. He offered to go to dinner while we were one hour from our home, but we decided to follow each other back into town instead. I stopped Definitely made the right choice. It was full of verbal, sexual, emotional, and physical abuse. fa qa ys pd cc is vk gy pz li